In May Kurt was taken to the emergency room with severe abdominal pain. That was the beginning of the many hospital visits and admittances to help combat the Hepatitis C virus that was ravaging his body. Various treatments to make him comfortable and send him home only to be taken back again in a matter of weeks. VCU doctors then told us the news that he would only get worse and that unless he had a liver transplant, he would die. One doctor told us he would need a living liver donor as the wait for deceased donors was in the hundreds of thousands and he would not be moved up on the MELD score until he was critical. He said “Kurt could die waiting for a liver transplant”.
Those words prompted me to send an email to friends and family to ask for prayer and to put the word out that Kurt needed a living liver donor. That email was sent throughout the community by well meaning friends who also contacted the media and the next thing we knew, we were receiving emails from all over the country with prayers, with encouragement and even people who did not know Kurt personally, that were willing to be a donor for him
DO YOU KNOW A HERO? I DO!
By Kathie Beach
In 1988, my husband Kurt, a Smithfield Police Officer, responded to an emergency call and tried to save a child's life who had been born with spina bifida and had a trachometry in her throat to be able to breathe. On this day, the child was not breathing and her heart had stopped. Kurt proceeded mouth to trach breaths and CPR on her having to suck the blood and mucous out of the airwaves to try to give her oxygen. It was to no avail, the child, sadly died. The mother of that precious child knew Kurt did everything within his power to save her. She considers Kurt a hero. So do I.
In 1988 the police department was not trained on blood pathogens and Hepatitis C had not even been classified yet, being called Non A and Non B Hepatitis. Kurt's attempt to save a life put his life in jeopardy. Later, he found out the terrible news that he had contracted this disease when he came in contact with the child's infected blood due to multiple blood transfusions her condition had demanded.
All these years God has kept His hand on Kurt. Although he was diagnosed with Hepatitis C and aggressive chronic liver disease, he was able to work and go about his life. He worked hard and gave tirelessly of whatever was required of him. He endured countless tests, procedures and experimental therapies to try to rid his body of the disease. The doctors were amazed by his stamina, his faith and his encouraging ways. He bounced back again and again and I suppose we always thought he would.
Then in May of this year he ended up at Obici hospital for a five day stay. From there he went to MCV where his team of doctors did extensive tests and evaluations. Another stay at Obici and another round at MCV and then finally this week we are told by his team of doctors that Kurt needs a new liver and we need to prepare him for a live donor as a wait for a DD (deceased donor) is in the 100,000s. They did not mince words that Kurt could die waiting for a liver donor.
Kurt needs a living donor liver transplant.
This is a procedure that involves the removal of the recipient's (Kurt) native liver and replacing it with a potion of the living donor's liver. Both Kurt's and the donor's livers will regenerate to normal functional volume within weeks. AMAZING!
Kurt has a wonderful team of doctors who have monitored him over the years and when they convened they said he is a perfect candidate for this operation. The doctor went so far as to say 'Kurt, you will feel like a new man. Able to work, play and live and you will feel better than you have in years.'
My hero needs a hero, he needs a living donor.
January 30, 2009
Kurt has been home since September maintaining until we get that longed for call. Though his body is weak, his spirit is strong. VCU is keeping him monitored by monthly visits and local weekly blood tests indicate how to adjust his medications. It has been quite a balancing act. Kurt is on a low sodium diet, juicing, eating mainly fresh vegetables and fruits with a little lean meat and fish. God has given us wisdom on how to keep him as strong as possible while we wait and our goal is to keep him out of the hospital until he goes for the liver transplant.
VCU's policy will not allow them to give us any information on potential donors. They are steady screening and have been since late October, 2008. We know of 10 so far who have gone for screening but was not a match for Kurt. There may have been more, but, those are ones we know of. Even as I write, someone is probably being run through the diligent and detailed tests that every donor candidate has to pass to be a match for someone. You can't imagine how grateful and humbled we are by their act of selflessness. The fact they could not donate due to one reason or another, does not diminish their courageous act. In God's eyes, what is purposed in the heart is as if it were done. So it is with Kurt and myself. We know they were willing to lay aside personal comfort, schedules, possibly even paychecks and undergo surgery! That makes them our hero!
We had a beautiful Christmas time, God's presence and love in our lives reminded us daily of why we celebrate the season and the birth of His Son, Jesus. Kurt was feeling well enough to visit with family in Hampton. Here is a picture of our family at his mom's!
January 31, 2009
Whew! Rough couple days. I had to take Kurt to the emergency room on Friday afternoon, he was in a lot of pain and very weak. BUT GOD, His army of prayer warriors and doctors endowed by His wisdom and direction, intervened and today he was feeling MUCH better and completely pain free. Thank You, Jesus! The doctor's are doing alot of tests and working closely with VCU to coordinate Kurt's unending balancing act of meds, methods and methologies. (is that a word?) not to be confused with mythology. :) They are keeping him for now to further study him and make sure he is well stabilized. I'm believing he will come home tomorrow or Monday latest. Our heart felt thanks to all who are praying.
BIG Happy Smile!!!!!!!
February 4, 2009
Kurt is home! I brought him home from VCU yesterday afternoon. He is very happy to be in his own environment. News 3 was in Richmond covering the two Kurt Beach Bills and was able to interview Kurt leaving the hospital. The compensation bill HB2243 that Delegate Barlow put in for us, passed unanimously! However, we learned later that evening that the workmen's compensation bill HB2252 was killed. That was so dissapointing. I am still waiting to hear the details as I was at the hospital with Kurt and couldn't be in the committee meeting. I am told HB2243 will go to the house and then the senate. I am putting together a list of names and emails to forward to our TEAM and keep the momentum going on this.
February 6, 2009
We received a call from Melissa, Kurt's transplant coordination nurse. She gave us the news that Kurt had moved up to #22 on the national transplant list. His low sodium levels placed him in a more critical mode and he could end up with a deceased donor before they find a living donor for him. We did not expect that and it was a sobering thought, one we hadn't thought out because we were fully expecting to find our living donor by now. What that means is we could get a call anytime and have to be ready to hit the road immediately to travel to VCU for the transplant. On one hand we are grateful that he is closer to getting a donor, either deceased or living. On the other, we don't like the reason behind his being moved up the list. We still feel Kurt's donor will be a living one, but, either way we are grateful. Today Kurt felt stronger than he has in weeks. His voice, his eyes, his energy level all much improved. God is good, prayer is great and our friends are such an encouragement to us. We are still waiting the outcome of Kurt Beach bill HB2243 as it goes to the House & then Senate.
Our hopes are high! God has given us much favor with man who has rallied on our behalf and who have heard our story and given their approval. We are in the waiting mode on both these subjects.....liver donor and passing bill.
February 13, 2009
What a busy week we had! Busy and one of the best weekends we've had in months, NO, years! Kurt had prayed to have the strength to personally make the fundraisers our town put on for him on Saturday and Sunday. God answered that prayer and some! He ate his first hotdog in 6 months at the TrueValue 1,000 hotdog event and then tasted some fine BBQ and chicken at the Center on Sunday. But, more importantly, he tasted the love of God through sooooo many people that he was overwhelmed with emotions and the love he received and felt towards them. What an awesome community we live in. Thousands of people from all over Isle of Wight County and friends past and present from as far away as Charlottesville, VA. (Hi Jim!)
I was told more than 5,000 people came and went throughout the day and they turned over 600 people away that didn't have tickets. WOW! Talk about a party!
Woo hoo! It was great, exciting, fun and Kurt and I will never forget it.
February 24, 2009
Kurt is still home, staying strong and even attended church Sunday! We celebrated another holiday at home, Valentine's Day.
It was a beautiful weekend and we even got away to OBX for a couple days. Peace, quiet and lots of rest.
Men, beware.....this is what happens when your wife gets you away for a couple days with no phone or TV.....buwa ha ha !
Yesterday I found out the compensation bill passed through the Senate and now it goes to the Governor to sign. Not sure when that will happen, but, will be informed so Kurt and I can be present for the signing. It's pretty amazing to think that the compensation will come out of workmen's compensation...the very organization that denied Kurt all those years he had to pay out of pocket medical expenses.
Another neat thing happened today, Kurt has been nominated for America's Most Wanted All Star Contest. His bio is on their webpage. There is a weekly winner and a grand prize finalist. You can vote once a day every day until April 12th. You know I already voted for my Hero!
http://www.amw.com/allstar/2009/nominee_detail.cfm?id=6067
March 5, 2009
TEST RUN
We made our first "test run" to VCU to get ready for a transplant. We got the call at 5pm that a deceased donor liver was on it's way to Richmond and Kurt needed to get there and get prepped for surgery. In spite of frozen roads and lots of snow on Richmond streets, News 3's, Jeremy Crider, beat us there and it was really exciting thinking of the prospect of Kurt finally getting that procedure that would save his life. We all joked how it felt like we were having a "baby" FINALLY!
We found out the hospital runs differently at night and finding our way around to the Hume-Lee Transplant Center and to the team that was waiting on Kurt to arrive, took more time than we thought, but, we did make it. They got him into a room and started inserting IV's and running tests. I made myself comfortable in the waiting room where another transplant family member, Kelly, was waiting. Kelly's mom was in critical condition and desperately needing a new liver. Her call had come that day as well. There were two livers on the way to our two family members.
Neither Kurt or myself could sleep that night, not just because the nurse kept coming in and out of his room, but, because we were too excited. At about 4:00 am, the doctor came in and told us Kurt would not be having the surgery. The liver upon final examination was not healthy enough for the doctor's satisfaction. We were released to go home and wait for the next try. Kelly’s mom did get hers. That was good news to hear!
It was disappointing, my Hero would have to wait. But, we felt God's hand ever directing the outcome and knew HE knew best for us. We will wait and the right one will come. In the meantime we will stay packed and ready to roll as we have been told Kurt has moved up to 1st on the list and we cannot go too far from home if that phone call comes. Time is of the essence.
Me, Jeremy, Kurt, Eric
March 8, 2009
ANOTHER TEST RUN!
Things are really cranking up now that Kurt is high on the list for ANY donor, living or deceased. We had another call for a deceased donor on Thursday in the wee hours of the morning. Kurt and I both didn't get a go on it from the Lord, so we declined. Yes, we did! We just didn't have peace about it and so we chose to say no to it. Then Saturday at 11 pm, we got another call for a potential deceased donor. This one we went for. We ran home, threw our suitcases in the back of the car and took off for VCU to be there by 2 pm for prepping. Once there a flurry of activities, blood work, IV's, introduction of nurses, anesthestic tech, sample this, sample that, hooking Kurt up and then........wait. and wait......and wait. The potential liver had been examined on site that was sending it, but once it gets to the doctors at VCU, then they biopsy it and check for hidden dangers to Kurt, like disease, weakness, etc. If it passes that far, the surgeons themselves will look at it to see if it meets their standard. In this case, the liver didn't pass the biopsy stage. We found out a little after 12 midnight (well really 1am since time jumped ahead an hour) We were not discouraged. We thanked the staff for their diligence to cover Kurt so well and we thanked God for protecting Kurt from a liver that was not meant to be his donor liver. We also prayed for the man (and loved ones of the man) who had lost his life but had been willing to pass on part of his body to help someone else.
So we left VCU, bags in hand around 2 am, stopped for breakfast at IHOP as Kurt was starving. He hadn't had anything solid to eat for 15 hours and was feeling weak from lack of food and just generally being in the hospital twice in one week for such an endeavor. We both crashed at 4 am as our heads hit our own pillows.
Today was beautiful and we took advantage of getting more things in order so when we do get that ONE phone call that will take us to the next level.....the organ transplant itself, we will be ready!
Kurt getting ipod ready....praise music and healing scriptures at his command!
March 29, 2009
Kurt was admitted to VCU via emergency room on Sunday, March 15th. He spent 5 days there while they treated him for infection in his blood. I traveled back and forth to Richmond every day and each day he got better. ( 1 ½ hr. drive) While there, he received the best of care and personally got to know all his caretakers, nurses and doctors by their names and faces. We both were impressed by their compassion and their willingness to work with Kurt's teams of doctors in Hepatology. He was discharged on Friday afternoon and was looking forward to stopping in Hampton for some seafood as he had been craving fish all week.
Friday night we attended the Black & White Crystal Gala event at Smithfield Center. Kurt was an honoree and awarded for his assistance in getting Mission of Hope started and his work with the homeless. He and I dressed up for the first time in over a year and went out on the town, the town of Smithfield! We had so much fun
Today, Kurt's mom is picking him up so he can visit with some relatives that have stopped in town. I am starting the task of moving items out of the house and getting rid of some things that collect dust and that Kurt can't have around after his transplant. At least for 6 months. No more live plants. All fake ones are being moved out. Ideally the carpet should come up and hardwood floors put down, but as a compromise, we are having a man come and clean all the furniture and carpet with organic compounds. no harsh chemicals. Another man will come and clean the vents and we have purchased air purifiers to help keep dust, and germs at a low minimum.
This is going to be quite a task, as my house is stock full of stuff and let's be real.....it's spring time in Virginia! Pollen, flowers, grass, dust, is EVERYWHERE! But, God! There He goes again. No worries here. It will get done.
April 1, 2009
I took Kurt to his sister's (Eva) house in Kitty Hawk to spend several days recouping while I came home to get the house dust free and post transplant ready. We are steadily moving towards that day, still not knowing for sure, but surely knowing it will come.
April 7, 2009
Governor Tim Kaine signed the Kurt Beach Compensation Bill today! After years of out of pocket medical expenses, ( Kurt was denied workmen's compensation due to statute of limitation law) today he received justification and a wrong was righted! The Governor was originally going to sign all bills on Wednesday but we had to be at VCU for an appointment for Kurt. Instead, they arranged to have us meet on Tuesday and we were able to be there, along with News 3, Jeremy Crider and side kick cameraman, Eric. We are still pinching ourselves. :)
April 10, 2009
What a GOOD FRIDAY! It's official! Kurt is back on the transplant list. The abdominal tap on Wednesday showed there was no infection and he is clear to go! Go God Go!
April 13, 2009
My Hero got his Hero!
On Good Friday, April 10th, Kurt received the news he was put back on the transplant list after being taken off due to infection. We were also told our potential living donor was a go and they wanted to schedule us to come in on Easter Sunday. So we checked into Hume-Lee Transplant Center on Resurrection Sunday for preparation for transplant surgery on Monday. The surgery went well for Kurt and his hero donor, who wants to remain anonymous. Dr. Fisher told us he was the "perfect match". We never doubted God had the perfect match for Kurt.
We have met our Hero Donor and his wife. They are beautiful people as you would expect. Very humble and giving, the both of them.
Kurt and I are so grateful for these wonderful people and ALL the people who called the transplant center to be considered as a living donor for Kurt. Words are hard to express. We are BLESSED!
April 29, 2009
It's been quite a learning experience since Kurt was discharged and we have had to be responsible for the medications, everything from anti-rejection to pain. All the procedures, blood pressure, blood sugar, temperature and weight having to be done throughout the day. Kurt is on insulin for now, we are believing over time his blood sugar will normalize. Right now, it's a small inconvenience to give himself shots to be able to have a new shot at life. (pun intended :)
Kurt came home today and what a great day it is. So good to be in an environment of peace and appreciation. He was met by family and some of his fellow officers. There were many cards, prayers and well wishes waiting for him.
We are blessed and so happy.
May 5, 2009
WOW! We received the report of the Lord from the good doctor today! We met with Dr. Fisher and he told us that Kurt's liver is fully grown and all his tests show good results! "Just keep on doing what you're doing, Kurt!" Kurt says, “I can’t take credit, it’s God, it’s prayers!”
May 20, 2009
We were invited guests at WTKR on Monday evening to be part of the evening newscast and have opportunity to give glory to God for bringing us through and to meet with the news 3 team and thank them personally for all they have done to help get not just Kurt's story out, but the story of organ donation.
August 19, 2009
Kurt went back to work part time about a month ago. Light duty, partial hours, as he could tolerate. Well....for the past two weeks he has been working FULL days, 40 hour weeks and is gaining strength, stamina, every day! He is sharp mentally and able to swing into full time investigations right where he left off over a year ago.
We are so thankful for the prayers and support we have received from so many and one way we are sharing our testimony to God and others is by exhibiting our very first personal license plates!
This plate is a double read. It says "GREAT LOVE" in reference to our Hero Donor whom we know is a man of compassion and sacrifice, just like the scriptures say....."greater love hath no man than to lay down his life for a friend."
It also stands for "GREAT TO LIVE!" which Kurt and I give thanks daily to God and make this a routine saying over dinner or whenever we are giving thanks throughout the day! We will never forget!
JANUARY 24, 2010
We've made it past the 1st month, 3rd month, 6th month and shooting for the 1st year post transplant mark. These are important landmarks to pass and we are so grateful for a new life, renewed life and don't take one day for granted. We have celebrated holidays, enjoyed Thanksgiving and Christmas with family and friends, and even a wedding in which Kurt was the sound man. Throughout it all Kurt has been strong in mind and spirit as he is getting his body strength up as well with a personal trainer at the Y. There have been some treatments and therapies we didn't expect, CMVIG treatments every week for 6 weeks and we nearly spent Christmas in the hospital when Kurt's levels elevated and they thought his liver could possibly be rejecting. An ultra sound and liver biopsy later indicated this wasn't the case. Thank God! We will be seeing the doctor next month and find out what the next preventative maintenance step will be. The goal now is to keep the Hep-C virus at bay with Kurt's immune system being suppressed.
FEBRUARY 9, 2010
Kurt and I had a very busy week last week. We met with Dr. Stravis, head of Hepatology at VCU and was given the game plan on combatting Kurt's Hep-C with his immunity being driven down by the anti-rejection drugs. A catch 22 scenario for sure.
But, there is hope in that there are current trial drugs/therapies being administered with high numbers of success rates in stopping the progression of Hep-C altogether. Unfortunately, at this time, Kurt will not be a candidate for this trial as they are looking for pre-transplant patients until it is FDA approved. So, we're praying it will be within the next three years . That is the time line we are given that his Hep C could begin to cause serious problems with him again.
He is scheduled to have outpatient surgery next Monday to remove stents that were suppose to dissolve but did not. They say it is a simple procedure.
We also went to Richmond on Thursday to advocate on the passing of HB1346. News 3 gave their support and met us there to film the vote.
This bill was our second attempt to have the current workman's compensation statute of limitation law amended to ensure first responders that come into contact with Hep C in the line of duty, would have time to file claim. I will post the link to the bill so you can read it yourself.
Unfortunately, the bill was killed, or let lie, tabled, whatever you want to call it, for the second time.
I will also post my letter to my delegates concerning their vote so you can get an understanding of what transpired.
Kurt and I, though very disappointed with the outcome, are not giving up on this subject. It's an unfair law, outdated and needs to be amended so that those first line responders will get the support they deserve when they need it.
Dear Delegate ...,
Kurt and I are very passionate about getting the current workmen's compensation statute of limitations law amended. As it stands now, it is a slap in the face to all first responders in Virginia. There was no physical impact statement attached to the bill so can you please explain to me why this bill was tabled? Yes, I heard the wide range of statistics that the insurance lobbyists threw out there. In fact, one got his information the night before while spending all of one half an hour on his pc. The fact that he threw out enormous numbers that have nothing to do with first responder statistics didn't seem to matter as not one of you even questioned the facts or asked Kurt anything pertaining to his experience.
HCV is a blood borne virus. It is not spread through kissing or casual contact. You cannot catch it through sneezes or coughs. Kurt contracted it by sucking blood and mucous out of a Spina Bifada child’s trache. He ingested some of that phlegm while trying to save the child’s life. Later, doctors were able to prove with medical certainty that was the point of contact with the virus. Workmen’s Compensation couldn’t deny the facts provided but said it didn’t matter because the current law’s statute of limitation for a workmen’s compensation claim was enough to deny Kurt. The current law reads a claim must be made two years AFTER diagnosis of the disease or five years from the DATE of the last injurious exposure in employment , WHICHEVER COMES FIRST! Since Kurt was asystematic, showing no symptoms until nearly 7 years later, he fell through the loop hole, in spite of medical proof!
HB1346 Worker’s Compensation bill will establish a limitations period for claims for hepatitis. Other diseases already have this limitations period in place. Today there are precautions in place for first responders to prevent them from coming in contact with this virus. Early tests for those exposed also provide options and therapies to help keep the virus from becoming a danger to them. In fact, there are two trial therapies being done right now that are providing near 95% success rate of stopping the virus’s production altogether.
The current Workmen’s Comp law is outdated, not having been amended in over 21 years and needs to be brought up to current status with medical science.
Several local papers have called to interview us and our local television channels may want to do a segment as well. I have been asked why the bill was tabled. Please give me the courtesy of your response.
Thank you,
Kathie Beach
FEBRUARY 15th, 2010
Kurt had ERCP surgery on Monday. Basically, it is removing the stents in his billiary ducts that did not leave his system all these months. When they went in, they removed two stents and then did a small incision to put a balloon up a duct that had deflated. Everything went well. He was released the same day and will have a couple days to rest before going back to work. We are hoping these stents are the reason his levels have been so high. We will know more next week.
APRIL, 2010
Met with Dr. Fisher and got the good news that he had never seen such a beautiful transplant scar and that Kurt's vitals looked good. He likes what he sees enough to pass him off to Hepatology for the next 6 months AND we can do local labs ! YAY! We took doughnuts to the staff and talked with new patients, a few old friends and Kurt was even asked to pose for a picture for a man's mom who was inspired by his story. We are smiling :)
Thank you, Jesus! God is still showing off through Kurt. So, things are getting onto a more "normal" routine for us. More time to attend to life stuff that continues to happen and get the focus off us for now.
JULY 14, 2010
Kurt continues to gain strength. We are both hitting the walking trails and YMCA to get these old bodies back in shape. While watching his, I neglected mine! Now with doctor's orders for him and sensibility for me, we have goals to reach. He is working maybe too much. Long days, lots of cases and he worked every weekend n June except one and all of 4th of July weekend. That will have to slow down. Most people would have difficulty keeping up with that schedule, let alone a post transplant patient. Virginia's spring and summer have been very hot for this time of year as well. That is something we are be careful with as well. Kurt cannot tolerate sun and in fact has to cover up with 50+sun block and a huge straw hat (I finally convinced him to wear) so as to keep sun exposure to a minimum. The doctor says skin cancer is a concern for post transplant patients due to their immune systems being so low. When we do go to the beach, we go late afternoon, take plenty of water and bring a big umbrella! All in all, we are living life and loving it! Thank you, God. Can't say it enough.
DECEMBER 6, 2010
Since my last report, Kurt and I experienced our first high school reunion together. We celebrated with Kecoughtan Warriors from the 70's. It was awesome to reconnect with friends from the past and meet new friends that have supported us in our time of need. We also celebrated his cousin Richard's wedding, got to fly to Orlando to do a working, vacation of sorts and just spent Thanksgiving at his mom's. That was particularly good in that his mom was in the hospital for quite a while earlier in the year. She is so much better and we were able to thank God for His hand on us all.
My daughter, Joy and her husband Josh, left for London after being here with us in Virginia for several years. They had come for a visit that turned into them being my back up caregivers for Kurt. November 8, they headed for the UK to pick up where they had left off in their new life together.
We had dinner with our Hero Donor & Hero Donor's wife (who is also a hero of course!) just last weekend. I look at that man and woman and see God's compassion at work in their lives. Such kind and gentle people. Thank You, God, for hearts such as theirs.
Kurt is working hard, taking care to take care of himself and listening to what the doctors say. He has some challenges coming after the first of the year and we will be looking at the doctor's plans for him then. Still, he is amazingly well and for that we are so grateful!
SEPTEMBER 6, 2011
So much happening this past year that I am sorry to say I've neglected these updates. Actually, I was waiting to update because Kurt's story continues to unfold and I wanted to be able to give specifics.
Kurt has been steady working and our family has been rolling with life changes. We have moved from our home of 26 years and that was no easy feat. LOTS of weekends spent giving away, taking away, moving out and moving in. Though we still have a couple rooms with boxes stacked in the corners, we are comfortable and busy making a home.
Kurt is busy at work and that will be changing as well this year. His doctors have approved him to begin a new viral inhibitor protocol to stop the virus from attacking his new liver. The immuneo drugs allow the Hep C free reign in his system and the hope is this new protocol will stop the attack against his liver. Because the protocol is a "heavy hitter" and because Kurt is going to have to slow down a bit and be able to get the rest he needs when he needs it...he will be retiring this year. Lots of emotions going on right now and we are once again placing our lives in the capable hands of our Heavenly Father.
Kyle, our Hero Donor and his Hero Wife, Karmen are well. We saw Kyle recently at VCU clinic for his checkup and Kurt's Dr. appointment. Karmen is a teacher and has started back to school already. We thank God every day for Kyle, Karmen and all the wonderful people who have helped us in our journey.
To Be Continued …..
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